Recently, with most of my friends going back to Uni to do Masters or finish their present courses, I've been chatting alot about meeting new people. Most people agree with what I thought until recently that it's impossbile to meet new people in Hitchin. The pubs aren't really suitable for it and you don't really meet people in clubs. And besides, I don't want to go out drinking on my own to pubs/coffee places as that just seems silly and I'm not confident enough.
So anyway, I'm on an emotioal high point in my life it seems and I want to prove those people who agreed with me wrong. I want to show them that it IS possible to meet people whilst living in Hitchin. I want YOUR opinion on the idea please. Even if you're a casual reader who never posts comments please let me know what you think about it....
I would run a website separate to this all about "Meet Matt Chapman". The idea would be that I'd meet one new person every week for the rest of my life. I'd keep the website running and bloh about all the people I meet, giving a photo and some brief details about them. I would travel to meet them (at the start at least). On meeting someone I'd give them a t-shirt that says "I met Matt Chapman" for them to proudly wear.
If I were on holiday I'd meet people randomly or if I was staying at a friends house I'd have to meet someone in the area, etc. There would be no weekends off. If I was hospitalised, god forbid, I'd meet someone in the hospital once a week. But at all other times, people would be able to register their desire to Meet Matt via the website!
The trouble I'm having is finding something convincing to sell it around. After a while it would be the whole "Lots of other people have Met Matt so there must be something special about it, I'm up for that" but at the start I'd need something convincing. Also, I know it's not sensible, but is it safe? Would you Meet Matt? Would you think I'm some crazy pschyco and ignore me and send me death threats or would you play along? Let me know what you think because if you reply positively you could end up convincing me to take on the biggest project anyone ever has!
I think its a great idea.... other than you will get sick of meeting people every weekend, and there is of course the cost of meeting people and giving them t-shirts.
Safety is also an issue, but I think its reasonably easy to take precuations on that one.
by So.. at 22:04 on 26th Sep 2005
How would that many people (who you don't already know) stumble across the new site? Would you meet with anyone who asked or just those you felt happy (age/race/gender wise) with? Are you meeting them or are they meeting you? (Regarding ego and reasoning.) Where do you intend to meet them? Was the bit about T-shirts actually serious? (Regarding patronising and ego.)
by Matt at 22:15 on 26th Sep 2005
Word of mouth, spreading the word. - Mostly anyone, I'd vet people first but I wouldn't be ageist, racist, genderist. - We'd be meeting each other, mostly. I'm sure the only people how WOULD Meet Matt would be the people who'd want to meet new people themselves, so it wouldn't end up being an ego thing. - I'd meet them in somewhere quite public, a train station or a cafe or somewhere neutral and public like that since it gives both of us a subtle sense of security and it's somewhere either of us can walk away from. - The tshirts idea was serious, but only to add some fun to the whole thing. It gives people a souvineer unique to the whole thing. They'd have it and I'd not know if they burn it or wear it, it wouldn't satisfy an ego.
by Clare at 09:17 on 27th Sep 2005
I think it's an excellent idea. I bet eventually there'll be a time (in future years) when you get fed up of it, though!
As long as you don't mind the time/cost of it, then that's pretty cool. Like you say, if you meet in public places then safety-wise it's cool. You could end up spending serious money on this, though. :)
by Karl (taa) at 11:11 on 27th Sep 2005
How cool :)
I love the idea :)
by Me at 21:54 on 27th Sep 2005
Whoever said that you can't meet anyone new in Hitchin was talking out of their arse!
by Rey at 01:10 on 28th Sep 2005
Sounds like a great idea! You make little "meet matt chapman" stickers for people to put on their websites/blogs
by Minty at 19:47 on 28th Sep 2005
You are a loon.
I'd go to Hitchen and teach you how to meet people.
Why did you never ask?
Anyway, but on subect - you're looney
by Bon at 01:25 on 29th Sep 2005
You'd better register meetmattchapman.com before someone else does!
by Minty at 17:42 on 29th Sep 2005
Already beat him to it ;)
I'll sell it for £25
by Appocomaster at 10:11 on 30th Sep 2005
I'm happy to get involved. You haven't met me yet :D
and domain stealing is bad, mmmk
by MiNi D (jaimie) at 10:14 on 30th Sep 2005
i want my Tshirt then :P, even though we met u can still meet me again :) . As for protection, cant have u infected with STDs all that LAN trash isnt going to do u any good :P i recommend medevil Full plate armour with a kevlar jacket and helmet. :D
by Intruder at 14:57 on 03rd Oct 2005
Well, there is many pros and cons.
You prolly would have to meet many people who might become a problem for you, and have many embaracing momments dealing with people who dont have anything in common with you. I cant think atm on a apealing layout for such website but tho obvious you should include as much info about you as possible ( not home andress and things who might make psychos harm you and family ofc) so you get contacted mostly by people who feels you have sumthin in common with them. My real suggestion i made on IRC, Travel around the world using Hostelling International, cheap proces and interesting people from everywhere sharing rooms with you, and not expecting some kind of return after they get in touch with you, what would happen alot if you do that thru the webby
by lurchleaf at 18:07 on 10th Oct 2005
brilliant idea, cant wait till im 18 then i too can meet matt chapman ;)
have a good time dude
by tempo at 18:23 on 10th Mar 2007
Luogo molto buon:) Buona fortuna! http://www.paradistc.org/tempo
by napoli at 08:36 on 13th Mar 2007
E evidente che il luogo e stato fatto dalla persona che realmente conosce il mestiere! http://www.paradistc.org/napoli